How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 02:43
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Have you ever forcibly sucked someone’s dick?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What is the worst emotional pain you ever felt as an adult?
Do not set goals—set systems.
What I need from you?
That's it for today.
What is the definite integral of x^x from 0 to 2?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Ask yourself:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Why does TikTok allow porn stars in its platform? Isn't it aimed at teenagers?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Hangs out with loser friends.
How are max different from medical and minimum security prisons?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Can you show pictures of your penis, big or small?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Why do narcissists keep calling on the phone after years of separation?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Did sharing a wife turn out okay?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Does not procrastinate.
What would you change in Rings of Power?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What’s the weirdest phone call you have ever received?
Making more friends is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
What did someone say to you that instantly made you realize their life was in danger?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?